
Unleash Your True Self at Creative ScentHer!
Are you tired of living up to others' expectations? Of being told how to think, feel, and behave? It's time to break free from the confines of the "good girl" box and embrace your authentic self.
I understand the challenges women face in a society that often dictates our identities. We've been conditioned to suppress our pleasure and rage, prioritize others' needs over our own, and conform to rigid gender roles. But here, you'll find a safe space to rediscover the deep connection between your body, speech, and mind.
Through this guided journey, you'll learn to tune into your inner wisdom, honor your boundaries, and unapologetically express your truth. Say goodbye to the disempowerment, disconnection, and unfulfilling relationships that stem from denying your authentic self.
Join me to explore the realms of pleasure, sensuality, and self-love. Reclaim your power, embrace your desires, and cultivate the kind of relationships that truly nourish your soul.
It's time to shed the "good girl" mask and live life on your own terms. Are you ready to embark on this transformative journey?
But at Creative ScentHer, I go beyond the ordinary.
For too long, societal norms and expectations have confined women, dictating who we should be. But here, we embrace something extraordinary - reclaiming your truth and embodying your authentic self, without apology.
I understand the unique challenges faced by women who have experienced complex trauma or are on the journey of cult recovery. Situations that can deeply impact your connection to your intuition and embodied sense of self.
Creative ScentHer is a sacred space designed specifically for you to gently re-awaken that bond. Through the profound language of scent, you'll "Scent Her" - the divine feminine within, your creative core, your queen energy.
This is no ordinary self-care routine. Our comprehensive approach guides you on a transformative path of empowerment through self-expression and embodied practices. You'll learn to lovingly tend to your needs, giving yourself the nurturing you deserve.
Step into this journey to break free from the "good girl" mold. Shed the identities imposed upon you and boldly embody your truth. You are a cosmic being with infinite power - it's time to live in radiant alignment with your essence.
My Sacred Mission for You?
For too long, you've been told to silence your needs, suppress your desires, and mold yourself into someone else's vision. But I'm here to guide you on a journey of rediscovery - to feel safe and at home within your body once more.
You deserve to experience the profound fulfillment of expressing love freely, without inhibition or shame. To savor the exquisite pleasure of wholeheartedly connecting with yourself and others.
My mission is to support you in shedding the "good girl" mask and releasing the misguided notion that your needs don't deserve to be prioritized. Together, we'll peel back the layers of conditioning that disconnected you from your authentic self.
Are you ready to embark on this sacred exploration? To awaken your senses, reclaim your inherent power, and finally thrive as your true, radiant self?
Join me on this incredible journey of rebirth. I can't wait to witness you blossoming into the uninhibited, pleasure-filled expression of your divine feminine essence.
Know Devan Anderson
Relationship Authorpreneur
My Journey to Guide You Home
I'm your passionate guide on the extraordinary path of awakening - a journey profoundly shaped by my personal experience managing CPTSD and recovering from the constraints of a destructive cult.
For over a decade, my heart has been devoted to supporting women like you who have had their identities dictated by others. Drawing inspiration from my own struggles and the profound healing power of pleasure and rage, I create a sanctuary for you to explore your dissatisfaction and step boldly into a life aligned with your truth.
As your Relationship Coach, I cultivate a compassionate space where you can peel back the layers of conditioning, address limiting beliefs, and embrace the infinite power of your divine feminine essence. My toolbox integrates embodiment practices, mindfulness techniques, and other modalities to nurture your unique awakening process.
Together, we'll tenderly rebirth your self-love, allowing you to shed the "good girl" mold and dance freely in the fullness of your creative spirit. You'll learn to live in joyful alignment with your values, giving yourself the gift of pleasure-filled self-expression.
On this path, I acknowledge the privileges of being a cisgender white woman safely residing in Phoenix, Arizona, with two associate's degrees and extensive travel opportunities. These advantages have undoubtedly shaped my perspective. My role is to provide a sacred container for you to unearth your authenticity.
Unveiling the Pleasure Framework
My personal voyage through the Pleasure Framework has been a tapestry woven with threads of self-discovery, resilience, and a conscious exploration of the multifaceted depths of the feminine experience. Each pillar - from the sensuality of creative pleasure to the righteous embodiment of sacred rage, from unleashing your inner goddess to revering the divinity of the Yoni - has transformed how I perceive and engage in my relationships.
This framework isn't mere theory for me; I'm on this path of rebirth right alongside you. Peeling back the layers of conditioning that disconnected me from my authenticity. Shedding the "good girl" mold imposed by a society determined to dictate my identity. Embracing the unapologetic pleasure of living in complete alignment with my truth.
The Pleasure Framework provides a powerful container for you to reconnect with your innate wisdom, giving yourself the nurturing you deserved all along. To dismantle the limiting beliefs that kept you small. To unleash the uninhibited expression of your radiant, sovereign feminine essence.
I'm walking this journey too, continually awakening to my own depths through the lenses of creative expression, righteous passion, goddess embodiment, and Yoni reverence. Join me in this sacred exploration, as we reclaim the right to live authentically, shamelessly pleasure-filled, and in communion with our most elemental selves.
Needs & Values:
This first framework is all about embracing your needs and values as part of your personal sovereignty. Many people, especially women, have been conditioned to suppress their authentic needs to please others and fit societal expectations. The journey begins with giving yourself permission to acknowledge these stifled parts without shame or apology. As you practice this radical self-acceptance, you'll notice a transformation in your relationships and life approach - establishing boundaries that honor your core values rather than contorting yourself to meet others' expectations. It's about moving from merely surviving to truly thriving by living authentically.
Safety & Rage:
The second framework explores 'Finding Safety in Your Rage,' which acknowledges how many people, particularly women, have been conditioned to suppress anger to remain agreeable and non-threatening. This framework invites you to recognize that anger isn't something to fear but a valuable signal that your needs or boundaries are being violated. By creating safe spaces to experience these powerful emotions, rage transforms from something frightening into a source of strength that empowers boundary-setting and self-advocacy. This journey allows you to reclaim anger as a tool for transformation, using its energy to dismantle limiting beliefs and protect your core values.
Building a Collaborative Life
This framework centers on 'Co-Creating a Life of Interdependence,' challenging the myth that success comes solely through rugged individualism. Many of us, influenced by patriarchal conditioning, have equated asking for help with weakness, pushing ourselves to exhaustion while trying to do everything alone. This framework invites you to recognize that true empowerment comes through strategic collaboration—where you focus on your unique gifts while others contribute their strengths, creating a sustainable web of connection. Navigating collaboration involves fostering common understanding, cooperation, and boundaries—a celebration of individual strengths in a shared narrative, a testament to the beauty of interdependence. By embracing this approach, you discover that your capabilities aren't diminished but amplified through harmonious reciprocity with others.
Self-Reclamation:
The fourth framework focuses on 'Reclaiming Your Sovereign Self,' addressing how many of us live fragmented lives, presenting different versions of ourselves depending on social contexts. This compartmentalization often stems from societal conditioning that teaches us to be accommodating, nurturing, and easygoing at the expense of our authentic expression. The framework invites you on a journey of wholeness—excavating your true essence from beneath these imposed roles and giving yourself permission to exist as your complete, multifaceted self. This integration represents the ultimate act of sovereignty: refusing to shape-shift to make others comfortable, instead showing up as your honest, expansive truth without apology.
Embodying Pleasure:
The fifth framework explores 'Reclaiming Pleasure as Your Birthright,' addressing how many people, especially women influenced by the 'good girl' narrative, have been conditioned to view pleasure as selfish, frivolous, or something that must be earned through self-denial. This framework invites you to recognize that disconnecting from your pleasure gradually depletes your vital life force, leading to numbness and disembodiment. By giving yourself permission to honor desires without censure, pleasure becomes a transformative anchor that elevates relationships with yourself and others. This reclamation process heals patterns of chronic overgiving while neglected personal needs, allowing you to step into an empowered existence where you celebrate your cravings and embrace life's joys without shame.
Weaving these Pleasure Frameworks into life means embracing your authentic needs and sovereignty, finding safety in expressing powerful emotions like rage, celebrating interdependent connections rather than exhausting independence, integrating all facets of yourself without turning yourself into a pretzel for others' comfort, and reclaiming pleasure as your natural birthright rather than something to be earned through self-denial. This integration creates a life of radical authenticity where boundaries are honored, collaboration is strategic, and joy becomes an anchor for decision-making. By embodying these frameworks, you transform from merely surviving within societal constraints to thriving in your full, multifaceted expression—moving from fragmentation to wholeness, from depletion to vitality.